Books

Discipline
Wonderful book on developing discipline practices that help you connect and teach.  Methods that require on-going practice, but rich results
No-Drama Discipline: The Whole-Brain Way to Calm the Chaos and Nurture Your Child's Developing Mind by Daniel Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson 

Divorce
Written for therapists, but helpful for parents as well
Creative Interventions for Children of Divorce by Liana Lowenstein


Note:  books have links to Amazon by clicking on title.  I don't receive royalties - just connected to make link easier